An addiction recovery library
It is nearly impossible to compile a list of all well written literature on the topic of addiction and recovery. But, how can you know what books you can trust when you are recovering from addiction, or have a family member or a loved one who is in recovery? How do you select the right books when there are so many?
We have attempted to get your reading list sorted by offering a beginning list of book suggestions that we believe can assist you in understanding more and taking the right steps in addiction recovery. NOTE HERE: We’ve excluded all time favorites such as “Alcoholics Anonymous: The Big Book” and present only the works with which we have a personal reading experience from 2010 to present.
We apologize if the book that saved your life in recovery did not make this list. In fact, if you have a book in mind that people should read, send it to us! Your recommendations are welcomed in the comments section below, and also feel free to ask your questions related to this topic.
ADDICTION SELF-HELP BOOKS WE RECOMMEND
1. Recover To Live.
This book, written by Christoper Kennedy Lawford, is an excellent resource for anyone looking to understand general and specific conditions related to chemical and behavioral addictions. “Recover to Live” is a self-treatment guide aimed at those who are looking for help with alcohol, drugs, eating disorders, gambling, hoarding, smoking, sex and porn addiction. As a collection of expert opinions, it features conversations with the world’s top experts in addiction. The book, besides covering many types of addiction, also covers issues such as cross-addiction and the causes of addiction.
2. Believable Hope.
In his book “Believable Hope”, Michael Cartwright shares the five (5) essential elements you need to beat any addiction. Michael gives examples of his own experience with drug and alcohol addiction, as well as the experiences and methods he used to become sober, successful, a well-respected addiction recovery figure, and a pillar in the dual diagnosis addiction treatment industry. If you are struggling with a drug or alcohol problem, suffering from prolonged depression or weight gain, this book offers the methodology of five (5) core elements that have helped tens of thousands of people over the years.
3. Dark Wine Waters.
The story of author Fran Simone, PhD and her husband Terry begins happy. He is a loving, kind and supportive husband, a good father – yet he’s a drinker. But, unlike the angry, abusive kind of alcoholic, Terry is a highly-functioning one. Fran is in denial because of this, so she takes on a codependent behavior. “Dark Wine Waters” can help spouses of functioning addicts and alcoholics help themselves, find out if they are in a codependent relationship, give them hope by showing that they are not alone, and provide them with the needed strength to take action.
ALCOHOLISM RECOVERY BOOKS
4. The Couch Of Willingness.
This book is written from a different perspective and tells the story of an addiction treatment professional who got caught up in alcoholism. Written by Michael Pond and Maureen Palmer, “The Couch Of Willingness” testifies that addiction is a disorder that does not discriminate. Michael, a respected and successful man with a beautiful family, finds he can no longer cope with the pressure after two decades of helping patients with addiction. This book can help anyone who is struggling with alcohol problems relate to similar experiences, learn more on the nature of addiction, gather information, seek help and stay sober.
5. Expressions of Drunkenness (Four Hundred Rabbits).
People interested in the social, medical, and cultural aspects of drinking alcohol should pick up this book. The book approaches “drunkenness” and “intoxication” from a fresh and interdisciplinary perspective. “Expressions of Drunkenness” is a dense and fascinating look into how throughout history, humanity has used and related to one another (as well as self) via drinking alcohol. Taking past socio-cultural factors in mind, this book will advance your current understanding of the individual and collective meanings, purposes, and functions of drunkenness.
6. Sober For Good.
Anne M. Fletcher offers new solutions for drinking problems and communicates suggestions and advice from those who have succeeded. She has gathered hundreds of stories from men and women who have resolved their drinking problems, and writes about the different recovery paths fit for virtually everyone. “Sober for Good” offers alternatives to AA (in case you find AA not cut out for you), provides support so you can recover on your own and without calling yourself an alcoholic. In this book you can get inspired by the success stories of other people who have walked the same path.
DRUG ADDICTION RECOVERY BOOKS
7. What’s Left Of Us.
Richard (Richie) Farrell is the author and voice behind a wonderful and difficult story of heroin addiction and recovery. “What’s Left of Us” is a book for people in recovery, or for individuals who are not even addicts, but who want to understand and relate to what motivates people to use sex, heroin, behaviors or substances to dull the pain of life. This memoir tells you the true story of how low a man can get in life and how hard he needs to fight to escape the ugliness of hard drug addiction, desperation, violence and lies.
8. Recovery and Renewal.
We decided to include “Recovery and Renewal” by Baylissa Frederick in our reading list of books related to drug addiction, because the issue of dependency and withdrawal from prescription drugs is a big one.
In this book, the author explains how prescription drugs (more accurately sleeping pills, other ‘benzo’ tranquillisers and antidepressants) work, and offers a clear look into the side effects and possible withdrawal symptoms that might occur. The techniques described in “Recovery and Renewal” can help you through the acute stages of prescription drug withdrawal and make you less anxious while going through the process. We find this book to be an excellent desk reference for patients who’d want to know what they can expect from withdrawal and what they can do once it occurs, as well as for doctors treating the possible symptoms of prescription drug dependence.
9. Survivors Of Addiction.
By gathering the narratives of fifteen people in recovery, author Mary Addenbrooke provides an overview of how and why people become addicted, and explores what happens once the addiction is left behind. All in all, “Survivors Of Addiction” examines the healing process, by getting deep into the WHY’s and HOW’s of addiction recovery. If you are interested in rationally observing the minds of addicts, this book is for you. Easy to follow, these thoughtful and profound explorations into the voices of addiction recovery are an essential reading for anyone who wants to get their head around addiction issues.
BOOKS ON CO-OCCURING DISORDERS
10. Co-occurring Addiction And Mental Health Disorders.
In this handbook, author Mark McGovern informs and empowers those who are living with addiction and co-occurring disorders to choose their treatment path, and create a treatment program (along with a trained clinician) that can address their specific needs. Working with the right team and with an approach fit for your needs, you can set achievable goals, make positive changes, and build a support network of family and friends while in co-occurring disorders recovery. The handbook “Co-occurring Addiction And Mental Health Disorders” is written and designed to help people with co-occurring disorders thrive in recovery.
11. An American’s Resurrection.
As the full title of this book described “An American’s Resurrection: My Pilgrimage from Child Abuse and Mental Illness to Salvation”, here you will read about the author’s (Eric C. Arauz’s) personal turbulations from his life, fight with mania and addiction, and recovery. This inspiring story will get you closer to what is happening within the lives of the most misunderstood groups in America – the people suffering from addiction and other mental illnesses.
12. The Dual Disorders Recovery Book.
A book that can help people suffering from substance use disorders and an emotional or psychiatric illness to better understand the 12 Step program and help the addiction recovery process. It brings you closer to the ways substance abuse and mental psychiatric disorders are intortwined, while offering a very realistic and empathetic solutions for recovery. “The Dual Disorders Recovery Book” is based on science, but so well-written that it can explain even more complicated states of mental health problems even to people who are not afflicted with dual diagnosis.
BOOKS ON COMPULSIVE DISORDERS
13. Women and Problem Gambling.
This well-written piece by Liz Karter covers the issue of women gambling problematically. It’s based on the author’s own research and theories that were developed throughout her extensive practice. Reading it, you will have a chance to explore what may lead to problem gambling in women and how unhealthy relationships and lonely, troubled, or damaging lives can move women closer to the trap.
“Women and Problem Gambling” covers several aspects of the problem, starting from the role of the gambling industry, the role of society, as well as the relationships of women with themselves and with others. The goal is to give an answer to the frequently asked question about “Who is to blame?” from several perspectives. This book can provide valuable insight to families, friends, therapists, healthcare professionals, and to women problem-gamblers.
14. Don’t Call It Love.
A book about relationship dependency, co-authored by Dr. Gregory L. Jantz and Dr. Tim Clinton that aims to help relationship addicts recognize their unhealthy patterns and break the cycle of relationship dependency. Where does relationship dependence come from? And, what contributes to it? It is all answered in “Don’t Call It Love”.
The book includes comprehensive examples, check-lists, and facts that anyone can use to identify signs of unhealthy dependence in a relationship. So, if you keep falling into the same dead-end relationships again and again, search for another person to make you feel complete, or believe that you are not enough, this is the book that can help guide you towards the key to healthy relationships. In the end, “Don’t Call It Love” features a twelve-week personal recovery plan to get you started.
15. Out Of The Shadows.
A book that will help you understand sexual addiction. Written by the author and treatment pioneer Patrick Carnes, “Out of the Shadows” starts off by trying to explain sexual addiction to the reader. Many times addicts are not aware of the problem. Also, partners and loved ones may not understand how sexual experience becomes the reason for being and the primary relationship for the addict. The author walks us through the four-step cycle that includes preoccupation, ritualization, compulsive sexual behavior, and despair. The latest (3rd) edition of “Out of the Shadows” also covers the phenomenon of cybersex addiction, and in the end leads readers towards finding help for sexual compulsion.
BOOKS FOR FAMILIES AND FRIENDS OF ADDICTS
16. Raising Healthy Children In An Alcoholic Home.
Barbara L. Wood addresses strategies for raising healthy children in families with an alcoholic parent. “Raising Healthy Children in an Alcoholic Home” can be useful in many practical ways, as the author treats this subjects with empathy and a vast clinical understanding. The book offers a clear and sensible guidance on how to protect children from the harms caused by parental alcoholism. We recommend it to parents who are raising children in a family that deals with alcoholism, as well as to counselors, therapists, and healthcare professionals that are working with families struck by this issue.
17. Hope Street.
Describing an emotional roller coaster, author Amanda Andruzzi wrote her “Hope Street” memoir to provide insight into what it’s like to live with an addict and be a co-addict. Anyone dealing with a spouse or a family member suffering from addiction can relate to the situations described. Amanda’s writing will make you feel understood and let you know that experiences of feeling alone and fearing to leave an addicted partner can be much alike. In the end, this is a memoir about a frightening journey that inspirationally ends in her finding the courage and strength to overcome the issues and leaves the past in the past.
18. Why Don’t They Just Quit?
If you are a loved one of someone who’s an active addict or in recovery, it’s likely that life will take you to many unexpected turns and you will have to deal with many situations. Joe Herzanek’s “Why Don’t They Just Quit?” brings these much needed insights to families and friends, and offers practical solutions about co-dependence, dealing with a relapse, financing addiction treatment, staging interventions, letting go, and many other topics. This is one of the best reads for families of addicts, but also for anyone else who is wondering what addiction compulsion is and how recovery takes place.
Questions about books to read in recovery
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This chapter introduces the changing definition of “family,” the concept of family in the United States, and the family as an ecosystem within the larger context of society. The chapter discusses the evolution of family therapy as a component of substance abuse treatment, outlines primary models of family therapy, and explores this approach from a systems perspective. The chapter also presents the stages of change and levels of recovery from substance abuse. Effectiveness and cost benefits of family therapy are briefly discussed.
The family has a central role to play in the treatment of any health problem, including substance abuse. Family work has become a strong and continuing theme of many treatment approaches (Kaufmann and Kaufman 1992a; McCrady and Epstein 1996), but family therapy is not used to its greatest capacity in substance abuse treatment. A primary challenge remains the broadening of the substance abuse treatment focus from the individual to the family.
The two disciplines, family therapy and substance abuse treatment, bring different perspectives to treatment implementation. In substance abuse treatment, for instance, the client is the identified patient (IP)—the person in the family with the presenting substance abuse problem. In family therapy, the goal of treatment is to meet the needs of all family members. Family therapy addresses the interdependent nature of family relationships and how these relationships serve the IP and other family members for good or ill. The focus of family therapy treatment is to intervene in these complex relational patterns and to alter them in ways that bring about productive change for the entire family. Family therapy rests on the systems perspective. As such, changes in one part of the system can and do produce changes in other parts of the system, and these changes can contribute to either problems or solutions.
It is important to understand the complex role that families can play in substance abuse treatment. They can be a source of help to the treatment process, but they also must manage the consequences of the IP’s addictive behavior. Individual family members are concerned about the IP’s substance abuse, but they also have their own goals and issues. Providing services to the whole family can improve treatment effectiveness.
Meeting the challenge of working together will call for mutual understanding, flexibility, and adjustments among the substance abuse treatment provider, family therapist, and family. This shift will require a stronger focus on the systemic interactions of families. Many divergent practices must be reconciled if family therapy is to be used in substance abuse treatment. For example, the substance abuse counselor typically facilitates treatment goals with the client; thus the goals are individualized, focused mainly on the client. This reduces the opportunity to include the family’s perspective in goal setting, which could facilitate the healing process for the family as a whole.
Working out ways for the two disciplines to collaborate also will require a re‐examination of assumptions common in the two fields. Substance abuse counselors often focus on the individual needs of people with substance use disorders, urging them to take care of themselves. This viewpoint neglects to highlight the impact these changes will have on other people in the family system. When the IP is urged to take care of himself, he often is not prepared for the reactions of other family members to the changes he experiences, and often is unprepared to cope with these reactions. On the other hand, many family therapists have hoped that bringing about positive changes in the family system concurrently might improve the substance use disorder. This view tends to minimize the persistent, sometimes overpowering process of addiction.
Both of these views are consistent with their respective fields, and each has explanatory power, but neither is complete. Addiction is a major force in people with substance abuse problems. Yet, people with substance abuse problems also reside within a powerful context that includes the family system. Therefore, in an integrated substance abuse treatment model based on family therapy, both family functioning and individual functioning play important roles in the change process (Liddle and Hogue 2001).
What Is a Family?
There is no single, immutable definition of family. Different cultures and belief systems influence definitions, and because cultures and beliefs change over time, definitions of family by no means are static. While the definition of family may change according to different circumstances, several broad categories encompass most families:
Traditional families, including heterosexual couples (two parents and minor children all living under the same roof), single parents, and families including blood relatives, adoptive families, foster relationships, grandparents raising grandchildren, and stepfamilies.
Extended families, which include grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and other relatives.
Elected families, which are self‐identified and are joined by choice and not by the usual ties of blood, marriage, and law. For many people, the elected family is more important than the biological family. Examples would include
Emancipated youth who choose to live among peers
Godparents and other non‐biologically related people who have an emotional tie (i.e., fictive kin)
Gay and lesbian couples or groups (and minor children all living under the same roof)
The idea of family implies an enduring involvement on an emotional level. Family members may disperse around the world, but still be connected emotionally and able to contribute to the dynamics of family functioning. In family therapy, geographically distant family members can play an important role in substance abuse treatment and need to be brought into the therapeutic process despite geographical distance.
Families must be distinguished from social support groups such as 12‐Step programs—although for some clients these distinctions may be fuzzy. One distinction is the level of commitment that people have for each other and the duration of that commitment. Another distinction is the source of connection. Families are connected by alliance, but also by blood (usually) and powerful emotional ties (almost always). Support groups, by contrast, are held together by a common goal; for example, 12‐Step programs are purpose‐driven and context‐dependent. The same is true of church communities, which may function in some ways like a family; but similar to self‐help programs, churches have a specific purpose.
For practical purposes, family can be defined according to the individual’s closest emotional connections. In family therapy, clients identify who they think should be included in therapy. The counselor or therapist cannot determine which individuals make up another person’s family. When commencing therapy, the counselor or therapist needs to ask the client, “Who is important to you? What do you consider your family to be?” It is critical to identify people who are important in the person’s life. Anyone who is instrumental in providing support, maintaining the household, providing financial resources, and with whom there is a strong and enduring emotional bond may be considered family for the purposes of therapy (see, for example, Pequegnat et al. 2001). No one should be automatically included or excluded.
In some situations, establishing an individual in treatment may require a metaphoric definition of family, such as the family of one’s workplace. As treatment progresses, the idea of family sometimes may be reconfigured, and the notion may change again during continuing care. In other cases, clients will not allow contact with the family, may want the counselor or therapist to see only particular family members, or may exclude some family members.
Brooks and Rice (1997, p. 57) adopt Sargent’s (1983) definition of family as a “group of people with common ties of affection and responsibility who live in proximity to one another.” They expand that definition, though, by pointing out four characteristics of families central to family therapy:
Families possess nonsummativity, which means that the family as a whole is greater than—and different from—the sum of its individual members.
The behavior of individual members is interrelated through the process of circular causality, which holds that if one family member changes his or her behavior, the others will also change as a consequence, which in turn causes subsequent changes in the member who changed initially. This also demonstrates that it is impossible to know what comes first: substance abuse or behaviors that are called “enabling.”
Each family has a pattern of communication traits, which can be verbal or nonverbal, overt or subtle means of expressing emotion, conflict, affection, etc.
Families strive to achieve homeostasis, which portrays family systems as self‐regulating with a primary need to maintain balance.
The Concept of Family
In the United States the concept of family has changed during the past two generations. During the latter half of the 20th century in the United States, the proportion of married couples with children shrank—such families made up only 24 percent of all households in 2000 (Fields and Casper 2001). The idea of family has come to signify many familial arrangements, including blended families, divorced single mothers or fathers with children, never‐married women with children, cohabiting heterosexual partners, and gay or lesbian families (Bianchi and Casper 2000).
Some analysts are concerned about indications of increasing stress on families, such as the increasing number of births to single mothers (from 26.6 percent in 1990 to 33 percent in 1999 [U.S. Census Bureau 2001c]). The increase in single‐mother families, which typically have greater per‐person expenses and less earning power, may help to explain why, in the general prosperity of the last half of the 20th century, the percentage of children living in the poorest families almost doubled, rising from 15 to 28 percent (Bianchi and Casper 2000).
Bengtson (2001) asserts that relationships involving three or more generations increasingly are becoming important to individuals and families, that these relationships increasingly are diverse in structure and functions, and that for many Americans, multigenerational bonds are important ties for well‐being and support over the course of their lives.
The Family as an Ecosystem
Substance abuse impairs physical and mental health, and it strains and taxes the agencies that promote physical and mental health. In families with substance abuse, family members often are connected not just to each other but also to any of a number of government agencies, such as social services, criminal justice, or child protective services. The economic toll includes a huge drain on individuals’ employability and other elements of productivity. The social and economic costs are felt in many workplaces and homes.
The ecological perspective on substance abuse views people as nested in various systems. Individuals are nested in families; families are nested in communities. Kaufman (1999) identifies members of the ecosystem of an individual with a substance abuse problem as family, peers (those in recovery as well as those still using), treatment providers, non‐family support sources, the workplace, and the legal system.
The idea of an ecological framework within which substance abuse occurs is consistent with family therapy’s focus on understanding human behavior in terms of other systems in a person’s life. Family therapy approaches human behavior in terms of interactions within and among the subsets of a system. In this view, family members inevitably adapt to the behavior of the person with a substance use disorder. They develop patterns of accommodation and ways of coping with the substance use (e.g., keeping children extraordinarily quiet or not bringing friends home). Family members try to restore homeostasis and maintain family balance. This may be most apparent once abstinence is achieved. For example, when the person abusing substances becomes abstinent, someone else may develop complaints and/or “symptoms.” See below for an illustration.
A young couple married when they were both 20 years old. One spouse developed alcoholism during the first 5 years of the marriage. The couple’s life increasingly became chaotic and painful for another 5 years, when finally, at age 30, the substance‐abusing spouse entered treatment and, over the course of 18 months, attained a solid degree of sobriety. Suddenly, lack of communication and difficulties with intimacy came to the fore for the non–substance‐abusing spouse, who now often feels sad and hopeless about the marital relationship. The non–substance‐abusing spouse finds, after 18 months of the partner’s sobriety, that the sober spouse is “no longer fun” or still does not want to make plans for another child.
Almost all young couples encounter communication and intimacy issues during the first decade of the relationship. In an alcoholic marriage or relationship, such issues are regularly pushed into the background as guilt, blame, and control issues are exacerbated by the nature of addictive disease and its effects on both the relationship and the family.
The possible complexities of the above situation illustrate both the relevance of family therapy to substance abuse treatment and why family therapy requires a complex, systems perspective. Many system‐related answers are possible: Perhaps the non–substance‐abusing spouse is feeling lonely, unimportant, or an outsider. With the focus of recovery on the addiction—and the IP’s struggles in recovery—the spouse who previously might have been central to the other’s drinking and/or maintaining abstinence, even considered the cause of the drinking, is now, 18 months later, tangential to what had been major, highly emotional upheavals and interactions. The now “outsider spouse” may not even be aware of feeling lonely and unimportant but instead “acts out” these feelings in terms of finding the now sober spouse “no fun.” Alternatively, perhaps the now sober spouse is indeed no fun, and the problems lie in how hard it is for the sober spouse to relax or feel comfortable with sobriety—in which case the resolution might involve both partners learning to develop a new lifestyle that does not involve substance use.
The joint use of both recovery and family therapy techniques will improve marital communication and both partners’ capacity for intimacy. These elements of personal growth are important to the development of serenity in recovery and stability in the relationship.
Family members may have a stronger desire to move toward overall improved functioning in the family system, thus compelling and even providing leverage for the IP to seek and/or remain in treatment through periods of ambivalence about achieving a sober lifestyle. Alternately, clarifying boundaries between dysfunctional family members—including encouraging IPs to detach from family members who are actively using—can alleviate stress on the IP and create emotional space to focus on the tasks of recovery.
What Is Family Therapy?
Family therapy is a collection of therapeutic approaches that share a belief in family‐level assessment and intervention. A family is a system, and in any system each part is related to all other parts. Consequently, a change in any part of the system will bring about changes in all other parts. Therapy based on this point of view uses the strengths of families to bring about change in a range of diverse problem areas, including substance abuse.
Family therapy in substance abuse treatment has two main purposes. First, it seeks to use the family’s strengths and resources to help find or develop ways to live without substances of abuse. Second, it ameliorates the impact of chemical dependency on both the IP and the family. Frequently, in the process, marshaling the family’s strengths requires the provision of basic support for the family.
In family therapy, the unit of treatment is the family, and/or the individual within the context of the family system. The person abusing substances is regarded as a subsystem within the family unit—the person whose symptoms have severe repercussions throughout the family system. The familial relationships within this subsystem are the points of therapeutic interest and intervention. The therapist facilitates discussions and problemsolving sessions, often with the entire family group or subsets thereof, but sometimes with a single participant, who may or may not be the person with the substance use disorder.
A distinction should be made between family therapy and family‐involved therapy. Family‐involved therapy attempts to educate families about the relationship patterns that typically contribute to the formation and continuation of substance abuse. It differs from family therapy in that the family is not the primary therapeutic grouping, nor is there intervention in the system of family relationships. Most substance abuse treatment centers offer such a family educational approach. It typically is limited to psychoeducation to teach the family about substance abuse, related behaviors, and the behavioral, medical, and psychological consequences of use. Children also need age‐appropriate psychoeducation programs prior to being grouped with other family members in either education or therapy. (For more information see chapter 6, under “Family Education and Participation,” and see also Children’s Program Kit: Supportive Education for Children of Addicted Parents [Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) 2003], developed by SAMHSA and the National Association for Children of Alcoholics.)
In addition, programmatic enhancements (such as classes that teach English as a second language) also are not family therapy. Although educational family activities can be therapeutic, they will not correct deeply ingrained, maladaptive relationships.
The following discussions present a brief overview of the evolution of family therapy models and the primary models of family therapy used today as the basis for treatment. Chapter 3 provides more detailed information about these models.
Historical Models of Family Therapy
Marriage and family therapy (MFT) had its origins in the 1950s, adding a systemic focus to previous understandings of the family. Systems theory recognizes that
A whole system is more than the sum of its parts.
Parts of a system are interconnected.
Certain rules determine the functioning of a system.
Systems are dynamic, carefully balancing continuity against change.
Promoting or guarding against system entropy (i.e., disorder or chaos) is a powerful dynamic in the family system balancing change of the family roles and rules.
The strategic school of family therapy “introduced two of the most powerful insights in all of family therapy: that family members often perpetuate problems by their own actions; and that directives tailored to the needs of a particular family can sometimes bring about sudden and decisive change” (Nichols and Schwartz 2001, p. 97).
Based on observations of the relationship between family structure and behavior, along with work with inner‐city children and their families, Minuchin (1974) developed another approach, structural family therapy. Minuchin and Fishman (1981) believed that families use a limited repertoire of self‐perpetuating relational patterns and that family members divide into subsystems with boundaries that regulate family communication and behavior. They sought to shift family boundaries so the boundary between parents and children was clearer. Intervention is aimed at having the parents work more cooperatively together and at reducing the extent to which children assume parental responsibilities within the family.
One major model that emerged during this developmental phase was cognitive–behavioral family and couples therapy. It grew out of the early work in behavioral marital therapy and parenting training, and incorporated concepts developed by Aaron Beck. Beck reasoned that people react according to the ways they think and feel, so changing maladaptive thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs would eliminate dysfunctional patterns and the triggers that set them in motion (Beck 1976). This union of cognitive and behavioral therapies in a family setting was new and useful. The therapist considers not only how people’s thoughts, feelings, and emotions influence their behavior, but also the impact they have on spouses and other family members. Cognitive–behavioral family therapy and behavioral couples therapy are two models that have strong empirical support.
Through the 1980s and 1990s, newer models of MFT were articulated. In response to the problem‐focused strategic and structural family therapies, authors such as de Shazer, Berg, O’Hanlon, and Selkman promulgated solution‐focused family therapy (e.g., Berg and Miller 1992; de Shazer 1988). They asserted that pinpointing the cause of poor functioning is unnecessary and that therapy focused on solutions is sufficient to help families change.
Soon after the introduction of solution‐focused therapy to the MFT landscape, White and Epston’s Narrative Means to Therapeutic Ends 1990 heralded the narrative movement in MFT. This family therapy development has focused on the way people construct meaning and how the construction of meaning affects psychological functioning.
In the early part of the 21st century, MFT seems poised to undergo another change, focused on empirically demonstrating the effectiveness of different approaches to therapy. The few models that have been tested empirically have shown promising results. For example, functional family therapy, multisystemic therapy, multidimensional family therapy, and brief strategic family therapy all have been shown to be highly effective in reducing acting‐out behavior among adolescents and/or in reducing the risk for problem behavior among their younger siblings. Among the couples therapy models known to have reduced marital distress and psychological problems are emotionally focused couples therapy, cognitive–behavioral couples therapy, behavioral couples therapy, integrative couples therapy, and systemic couples therapy. (See chapter 3 for further information.)
Primary Family Therapy Models in Use Today
There are numerous variations on the family therapy theme. Some approaches to family therapy reach out to multiple generations or family groups. Some treat just one person, who may or may not be the IP. Usually, though, family therapy involves a therapist meeting with several family members. An expansive concept of family therapy also might spin off group programs that, for example, could treat the IP’s spouse, children in groups (children do best if they first participate in groups that prepare them for family therapy), or members of a residential treatment setting.
Most family therapy meetings take place in clinics or private practice settings. Home‐based therapy breaks from the traditional clinical setting, reasoning that joining the family where it lives can help overcome shame, stigma, and resistance. It is a return to the practices of social workers who, in the early 20th century, did their work in clients’ homes (Beels 2002). Meeting the family where it lives also provides valuable information about how the family really functions.
Four predominant family therapy models are used as the bases for treatment and specific interventions for substance abuse:
The family disease model looks at substance abuse as a disease that affects the entire family. Family members of the people who abuse substances may develop codependence, which causes them to enable the IP’s substance abuse. Limited controlled research evidence is available to support the disease model, but it nonetheless is influential in the treatment community as well as in the general public (McCrady and Epstein 1996).
The family systems model is based on the idea that families become organized by their interactions around substance abuse. In adapting to the substance abuse, it is possible for the family to maintain balance, or homeostasis. For example, a man with a substance use disorder may be antagonistic or unable to express feelings unless he is intoxicated. Using the systems approach, a therapist would look for and attempt to change the maladaptive patterns of communication or family role structures that require substance abuse for stability (Steinglass et al. 1987).
Cognitive–behavioral approaches are based on the idea that maladaptive behaviors, including substance use and abuse, are reinforced through family interactions. Behaviorally oriented treatment tries to change interactions and target behaviors that trigger substance abuse, to improve communication and problemsolving, and to strengthen coping skills (O’Farrell and Fals‐Stewart 1999).
Most recently, multidimensional family therapy (MDFT) has integrated several different techniques with emphasis on the relationships among cognition, affect (emotionality), behavior, and environmental input (Liddle et al. 1992). MDFT is not the only family therapy model to adopt such an approach. Functional family therapy (Alexander and Parsons 1982), multisystemic therapy (Henggeler et al. 1998), and brief strategic family therapy (Szapocznik et al. in press) all adopt similar multidimensional approaches.
Family Therapy in Substance Abuse Treatment
Goals of Family Therapy
The integration of family therapy in substance abuse treatment is still relatively rare. Family therapy in substance abuse treatment helps families become aware of their own needs and provides genuine, enduring healing for people. Family therapy works to shift power to the parental figures in a family and to improve communication. Other goals will vary according to which member of the family is abusing substances. Family therapy can answer questions such as
Why should children or adolescents be involved in the treatment of a parent who abuses substances?
What impact does a parent abusing substances have on his or her children?
How does adolescent substance abuse impact adults?
What is the impact of substance abuse on family members who do not abuse substances?
Whether a child or adult is the family member who uses substances, the entire family system needs to change, not just the IP. Family therapy, therefore, helps the family make interpersonal, intrapersonal, and environmental changes affecting the person using alcohol or drugs. It helps the nonusing members to work together more effectively and to define personal goals for therapy beyond a vague notion of improved family functioning. As change takes place, family therapy helps all family members understand what is occurring. This out‐in‐the‐open understanding removes any suspicion that the family is “ganging up” on the person abusing substances.
A major goal of family therapy in substance abuse treatment is prevention––especially keeping substance abuse from moving from one generation to another. Study after study shows that if one person in a family abuses alcohol or drugs, the remaining family members are at increased risk of developing substance abuse problems. The single most potent risk factor of future maladaption, predisposition to substance use, and psychological difficulties is a parent’s substance‐abusing behavior (Johnson and Leff 1999). A “healthy family structure can prevent adolescent substance abuse even in the face of heavy peer pressure to use and abuse drugs” (Kaufman 1990a, p. 51). Further, if the person abusing substances is an adolescent, successful treatment diminishes the likelihood that siblings will abuse substances or commit related offenses (Alexander et al. 2000). Treating adolescent drug abuse also can decrease the likelihood of harmful consequences in adulthood, such as chronic unemployment, continued drug abuse, and criminal behavior.
Because of the variety of family therapy models, the diverse schools of thought in the field, and the different degrees to which family therapy is implemented, multiple therapeutic factors probably account for the effectiveness of family therapy. Among them might be acceptance from the therapist; improved communication; organizing the family structure; determining accountability; and enhancing impetus for change, which increases the family’s motivation to change its patterns of interaction and frees the family to make changes. Family therapy also views substance abuse in its context, not as an isolated problem, and shares some characteristics with 12‐Step programs, which evoke solidarity, self‐confession, support, self‐esteem, awareness, and smooth re‐entry into the community.
Still another reason that family therapy is effective in substance abuse treatment is that it provides a neutral forum in which family members meet to solve problems. Such a rational venue for expression and negotiation often is missing from the family lives of people with a substance problem. Though their lives are unpredictable and chaotic the substance abuse—the cause of the upheaval and a focal organizing element of family life—is not discussed. If the subject comes up, the tone of the exchange is likely to be accusatory and negative.
In the supportive environment of family therapy, this uneasy silence can be broken in ways that feel emotionally safe. As the therapist brokers, mediates, and restructures conflicts among family members, emotionally charged topics are allowed to come into the open. The therapist helps ensure that every family member is accorded a voice. In the safe environment of therapy, pent‐up feelings such as fear and concern can be expressed, identified, and validated. Often family members are surprised to learn that others share their feelings, and new lines of communication open up. Family members gain a broader and more accurate perspective of what they are experiencing, which can be empowering and may provide enough energy to create positive change. Each of these improvements in family life and coping skills is a highly desirable outcome, whether or not the IP’s drug or alcohol problems are immediately resolved. It is clearly a step forward for the family of a person abusing substances to become a stable, functional environment within which abstinence can be sustained.
To achieve this goal, family therapy facilitates changes in maladaptive interactions within the family system. The therapist looks for unhealthy relational structures (such as parent‐child role reversals) and faulty patterns of communication (such as a limited capacity for negotiation). In contrast to the peripheral role that families usually play in other therapeutic approaches, families are deeply involved in whatever changes are effected. In fact, the majority of changes will take place within the family system, subsequently producing change in the individual abusing substances.
Family therapy is highly applicable across many cultures and religions, and is compatible with their bases of connection and identification, belonging and acceptance. Most cultures value families and view them as important. This preeminence suggests how important it is to include families in treatment. It should be acknowledged, however, that a culture’s high regard for families does not always promote improved family functioning. In cultures that revere families, people may conceal substance abuse within the family because disclosure would lead to stigma and shame.
Additionally, the definition, or lack of definition, of the concept of “rehabilitation” varies greatly across cultural lines. Cultures differ in their views of what people need in order to heal. The identities of individuals who have the moral authority to help (for example, an elder or a minister) can differ from culture to culture. Therapists need to engage aspects of the culture or religion that promote healing and to consider the role that drugs and alcohol play in the culture. (Issues of culture and ethnicity are discussed in detail in chapter 5.)
Effectiveness of Family Therapy
While there are limited studies of the effectiveness of family therapy in the treatment of substance abuse, important trends suggest that family therapy approaches should be considered more frequently in substance abuse treatment. Much of the federally funded research into substance abuse treatment has focused on criminal justice issues, co‐occurring disorders, and individual‐specific treatments. One reason is that research with families is difficult and costly. Ambiguities in definitions of family and family therapy also have made research in these areas difficult. As a result, family therapy has not been the focus of much substance abuse research. However, evidence from the research that has been conducted, including that described below, indicates that substance abuse treatment that includes family therapy works better than substance abuse treatments that do not (Stanton et al. 1982). It increases engagement and retention in treatment, reduces the IP’s drug and alcohol use, improves both family and social functioning, and discourages relapse.
Selected Research Outcomes of Family Approaches to Substance Abuse Treatment
• Bukstein (2000, p. 74) found that “family‐focused interventions are empirically well‐supported for youth with a conduct disorder or substance use disorder.” He notes that 68 percent of adolescents with a substance use disorder also had a comorbid disruptive behavior disorder. Bukstein emphasizes that family therapy interventions can focus on the environmental factors that promote both disorders.
• Catalano et al. (1999) sought to determine whether family‐focused interventions for parents on methadone would reduce their drug use and prevent children from starting to use drugs. After studying 144 methadone‐treated parents with 78 children for a year, with 33 sessions of family training, the authors found significant improvements in parenting skills, less parental drug use, fewer deviant peers, and better family management.
• Cunningham and Henggeler’s 1999 overview of multisystemic therapy, a family‐based treatment model, found high rates of substance abuse treatment completion among youth with serious clinical problems.
• Diamond et al. (1996) reviewed advances in family‐based treatment research. They cited a growing body of research indicating that family‐based treatments are effective for a variety of child and adolescent disorders, including substance abuse, schizophrenia, and conduct disorder. The studies all demonstrated the superiority of brief family treatment over individual and group treatments for reducing drug use.
• Friedman et al. (1995) conducted a study of 176 adolescent drug abuse clients and their mothers in six outpatient drug‐free programs with family therapy sessions. The authors found that the more positively the client described the family’s functioning and relationships at pretreatment, the more client improvement was reported by client or mother at follow‐up. They concluded that the adolescents with better treatment outcomes began treatment with more positive perceptions of their families.
• In a review of controlled treatment outcome research, Liddle and Dakof (1995a) found that different types of family intervention can engage and retain people who use drugs and their families in treatment, significantly reduce drug use and other problem behaviors, and enhance social functioning. They also concluded that family therapy was more effective than therapy without families, but cautioned against overgeneralizing this finding because of methodological limitations and the relatively small number of studies.
• McCrady and Epstein (1996) noted that an extensive literature supports family‐based models and the effectiveness of treatments based on the family disease, family systems, and behavioral family models. Research knowledge is limited, however, by a lack of attention to cultural, racial, sexual, and gender orientation issues among subjects; the lack of couples treatment research on people using drugs; and the lack of family treatment research on individuals with alcohol abuse disorders.
• O’Farrell and Fals‐Stewart (2000) concluded that behavioral couples therapy led to more abstinence and better relationships, decreased the incidence of separation and divorce, reduced domestic violence, and had a favorable cost/benefit ratio compared to individual therapy.
• Shapiro (1999) describes La Bodega de la Familia, a family therapy approach used to reduce relapse, parole violations, and recidivism for individuals released from prison and jail. With intensive family‐based therapies, the 18‐month rearrest rate dropped from 50 to 35 percent. • In a study using both family and non‐family treatments for substance abuse, Stanton and Shadish (1997) concluded that (1) when family–couples therapy was part of the treatment, results were clearly superior to modalities that do not include families, and (2) family therapy promotes engagement and retention of clients.
• Walitzer (1999) analyzed two forms of family therapy (behavioral marital therapy and family systems therapy) for treating substance abuse, concluding that the model of choice depended on the problem at hand. If problems (such as poor communication) centered in the marriage, behavioral marital therapy was the better approach. If the problem involved a whole family organized around alcohol or illicit drugs, family systems therapy could be a superior strategy. In either case, her review “strongly indicates the critical role family functioning can have in both subtly maintaining an addiction and in creating an environment conducive to abstinence” (Walitzer 1999, p. 147).
Although the effectiveness of family therapy is documented in a growing body of evidence, integrating family therapy into substance abuse treatment does pose some specific challenges:
Family therapy is more complex than nonfamily approaches because more people are involved.
Family therapy takes special training and skills beyond those typically required in many substance abuse treatment programs.
Relatively little research‐based information is available concerning effectiveness with subsets of the general population, such as women, minority groups, or people with serious psychiatric problems (O’Farrell and Fals‐Stewart 1999).
The balance, however, certainly tips in favor of a family therapy in treating substance abuse. Based on effectiveness data and the consensus panel’s collective experience, the consensus panel recommends that substance abuse treatment agencies and providers consider how they might incorporate family approaches, including age‐appropriate educational support services for their clients’ children, into their programs.
Only a few studies have assessed the cost benefits of family therapy or have compared the cost of family therapy to other approaches such as group therapy, individual therapy, or 12‐Step programs. A small but growing body of data, however, has demonstrated the cost benefits of family therapy specifically for substance abuse problems. Family therapy also has appeared to be superior in situations that might in some key respect be similar to substance abuse contexts.
For example, Sexton and Alexander’s work with functional family therapy (so called because it focuses its interventions on family relationships that influence and are influenced by, and thus are functions of, positive and negative behaviors) for youth offenders found that family therapy nearly halved the rate of re‐offending—19.8 percent in the treatment group compared to 36 percent in a control group (Sexton and Alexander 2002). The cost of the family therapy ranged from $700 to $1,000 per family for the 2‐year study period. The average cost of detention for that period was at least $6,000 per youth; the cost of a residential treatment program was at least $13,500. In this instance, the cost benefits of family therapy were clear and compelling (Sexton and Alexander 2002).
Other studies look at the offset factor; that is, the relationship between family therapy and the use of medical care or social costs. Fals‐Stewart et al. (1997) examined social costs incurred by clients (for example, the cost of substance abuse treatment or public assistance) and found that behavioral couples therapy was considerably more cost effective than individual therapy for substance abuse, with a reduction of costs of $6,628 for clients in couples therapy, compared to a $1,904 reduction for clients in individual therapy.
Similar results were noted in a study by the National Working Group on Family‐Based Interventions in Chronic Disease, which found that 6 months after a family‐focused intervention, reimbursement for health services was 50 percent less for the treatment group, compared to a control group. While this study looked at chronic diseases such as heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer’s disease, and diabetes, substance abuse also is a chronic disease that is in many ways analogous to these physical conditions (Fisher and Weihs 2000). Both chronic diseases and substance abuse
Are long‐standing and progressive
Often result from behavioral choices
Are treatable, but not curable
Have clients inclined to resist treatment
Have high probability of relapse
Chronic diseases are costly and emotionally draining. Substance abuse is similar to a chronic disease, with potential for recovery; it even can lead to improvement in family functioning. Other cost benefits result from preventive aspects of treatment. While therapy usually is not considered a primary prevention intervention, family‐based treatment that is oriented toward addressing risk factors may have a significant preventive effect on other family members (Alexander et al. 2000). For example, it may help prevent substance abuse in other family members by correcting maladaptive family dynamics.
Family therapy for substance abuse treatment demands the management of complicated treatment situations. Obviously, treating a family is more complex than treating an individual, especially when an unwilling IP has been mandated to treatment. Specialized strategies may be necessary to engage the IP into treatment. In addition, the substance abuse almost always is associated with other difficult life problems, which can include mental health issues, cognitive impairment, and socioeconomic constraints, such as lack of a job or home. It can be difficult, too, to work across diverse cultural contexts or discern individual family members’ readiness for change and treatment needs.
These circumstances make meaningful family therapy for substance abuse problems a complex and challenging task for both family therapists and substance abuse treatment providers. Modifications in the treatment approach may be necessary, and the success of treatment will depend, to a large degree, on the creativity, judgment, and cooperation in and between programs in each field.
Clinicians treating families have to weigh many variables and idiopathic situations. Few landmarks may be apparent along the way; for many families, the phases of family therapy are neither discrete nor well defined. This uncertain journey is made less predictable because multiple people are involved. For example, in an adolescent program, a child in treatment might have a parent with alcoholism. As the parent’s substance abuse issues begin to surface, the child is withdrawn from treatment. This is why children need to participate in a group of their own. In a family therapy program, the child’s and the parent’s substance abuse problems would be addressed concomitantly.
Another factor that can complicate any therapy process is external coercion, such as court‐mandated treatment or mandates arising out of child protective services requirements. These situations can affect families in varied ways; treatment providers should approach mandated family therapy with heightened vigilance about the role of coercion in family process. Often in substance abuse treatment, a legal mandate or some other form of coercion makes therapy a requirement. The nature of mandated treatment is likely to have an effect on the dynamics of family therapy. It can place constraints on the therapist and raise distracting issues that have a negative effect on treatment, requiring more care, coordination of services, and case management. The legal and ethical thicket is dense in these circumstances. An exception is when the client is a minor, the courts can mandate treatment and family therapy. Practitioners should avail themselves of all relevant resources (e.g., professional associations, supervision, ethical guidelines, local and State legal and consumer organizations) before venturing to treat families under court order or similar situations. Therapists must form a working alliance with each family member and establish trust with the family so that sensitive information can be disclosed. This requires the therapist to demonstrate that she is on the family’s side therapeutically, but she also needs to disclose to the family any other obligations she has as a result of her position. For example, by agreeing to treat the family under the particular circumstances at hand, the therapist might be obligated to make progress reports to probation or parole agencies.
Even though an individual with a substance use disorder generally brings a family into treatment, it is possible that more than one person in the family has substance abuse problems, mental illness, problems with domestic violence, or some other major difficulty. Substance abuse, in fact, may be a secondary reason for referral for therapy. Changing the family’s maladaptive patterns of interaction may help to correct psychosocial problems among all family members. For more information about co‐occurring mental and substance use disorders see the forthcoming TIP Substance Abuse Treatment for Persons With Co‐Occurring Disorders (Center for Substance Abuse Treatment [CSAT] in development k).
Biological aspects of addiction
Other important considerations involve the biological and physiological aspects of addiction and recovery. The recovery process varies according to the type of drug, the extent of drug use, and the extent of acute and chronic effects. Recovery also may depend, at least partly, on the extent to which the drugs are intertwined with antisocial behavior and co‐occurring conditions. For the IP, post‐acute withdrawal symptoms also will commonly present and interfere with family therapy for a significant period before gradually subsiding.
The biological aspects of addiction also may affect the type of therapy that can be effective. For example, family therapy may not be as effective for someone whose drug use has caused significant organic brain damage or for a person addicted to cocaine who has become extremely paranoid. Severe psychopathology, however, should not automatically exclude a client from family therapy. Even in these cases, with appropriate individual and psychopharmacological treatment, family therapy may be helpful (O’Farrell and Fals‐Stewart 1999) since other members of the family might need and benefit from family therapy services.
The socioeconomic status of a family in treatment can have far‐reaching ramifications. During treatment, poverty has two immediate implications. First, therapy will need to address many survival issues—a therapist cannot explore aspects of family systems or cognitive–behavioral traits if a family is being evicted, is not eating properly, is without financial resources and employment, or is experiencing some other threat to daily life. Second, the reimbursement systems that can be accessed probably will determine how long treatment will continue, irrespective of client needs. Therefore, family therapy treatments for substance abuse must be designed to be relatively brief and to target aspects of the family’s environment that may be maintaining the drug abuse symptomatology (e.g., Robbins et al. in press). In addition, family members should be referred to Al‐Anon, Alateen, and NAR‐Anon to enhance their potential for long‐term recovery.
Cultural competence is an important feature in family therapy because therapists must work with the structures of families from many cultures. Knowledge of and sensitivity to cultures is involved in determining
To what extent is the family’s divergence from mainstream norms a function of pathology or a different cultural background?
How is the family arranged—hierarchically? Democratically? Within this structure, what are the communication patterns?
How well is this family functioning? That is, to what extent can the family meet its own goals without getting in its own way?
What therapeutic goals are appropriate?
What are the culture’s prescribed roles for each family member?
Who are the appropriately defined “power figures” in the family?
The need for cultural competence does not imply that a therapist must belong to the same cultural group as the client family. It is possible to develop cultural competence and work with groups other than one’s own. A sensitive therapist pays attention, senses cultural nuances, and learns from clients. Even when the therapist is from the same culture as the family in treatment, trust cannot be assumed. It must be built. The expectations regarding the therapist’s role as an agent of change must be clearly discussed in relation to the developing trust with the family and individual members.
Issues related to cultural sensitivity and appropriateness are considered in greater detail in chapter 5 and in the forthcoming TIP Improving Cultural Competence in Substance Abuse Treatment (CSAT in development b).
Stages of change and levels of recovery
The process of recovery is complex and multifaceted. One useful framework for understanding this process involves stages of change (Prochaska et al. 1992), which can be applied to an individual or to the whole family and used as a framework for treatment. The five stages of change are
Individuals typically progress and regress in their movements through these stages (Prochaska et al. 1992). Although these stages can be applied to a whole family, not every family member necessarily will be at the same stage at the same time. The therapist needs to address where each family member is, for these factors play an important role in assessment and treatment matching decisions. For additional information on the stages of change, refer to chapter 3 of this TIP and see also TIP 35, Enhancing Motivation for Change in Substance Abuse Treatment (CSAT 1999b).
While Prochaska et al. (1992) conceptualized readiness for change, other researchers have modeled the stages of recovery after treatment has begun. One such model of the path through treatment is Kaufman’s (1990b) progressive levels of recovery:
Dry abstinence is a time when clients must cope with problems revolving around the cessation of substance use (such as withdrawal, sudden realization of the actual damage intoxication has caused, and the shame that follows).
Sobriety, or early recovery, concentrates on maintaining freedom from substances. Bit by bit, the client is helped to substitute health‐sustaining behaviors for relationships and circumstances that precipitate substance use.
Advanced recovery shifts from support to examination of underlying personal issues that predispose the client to substance use. Trust and intimacy are re‐established, and the client moves through the termination of therapy.
This TIP approaches stages of change for families by combining Bepko and Krestan’s stages of treatment for families (1985) and Heath and Stanton’s stages of family therapy for substance abuse treatment (1998). Together, the phases of family change are
Attainment of sobriety. The family system is unbalanced but healthy change is possible.
Adjustment to sobriety. The family works on developing and stabilizing a new system.
Long‐term maintenance of sobriety. The family must rebalance and stabilize a new and healthier lifestyle.
Combining these two models provides a simple, straightforward categorization for a family’s progress in recovery regarding attainment of, adjustment to, and long‐term maintenance of sobriety. For additional information on these phases of family change, see chapter 4.
Unanswered research questions
At present, research cannot guide treatment providers about the best specific matches between family therapy and particular family systems or substances of abuse. Research to date suggests that certain family therapy approaches can be effective, but no one approach has been shown to be more effective than others. In addition, even though the right model is an important determinant of appropriate treatment, the exact types of family therapy models that work best with specific addictions have not been determined. However, a growing body of evidence over the past 25 years suggests that children benefit from participating in age‐appropriate support groups. These can be offered by treatment programs, school‐based student assistance programs, or faith‐based communities.
Experience and sound judgment can distinguish many situations in which family therapy alone would or would not be a workable modality. Treatment must be customized to the needs of each family and the person abusing substances. An adolescent who is primarily smoking marijuana, for instance, is a good candidate for family systems work. On the other hand, if a youth is mixing cocaine, amphetamines, alcohol, and other drugs, the client is likely to need more extensive services—detoxification, residential treatment, or intensive outpatient therapy––which can be used in addition to family therapy (Liddle and Hogue 2001).
Safety and Appropriateness of Family Therapy
Only in rare situations is family therapy inadvisable. Occasionally, it will be inappropriate or counterproductive because of reasons such those as mentioned above. Sometimes, though, family therapy is ruled out due to safety issues or legal constraints. Family or couples therapy should not take place unless all participants have a voice and everyone can raise pertinent issues, even if a domineering family member does not want them discussed. Family therapy can be used when there is no evidence of serious domestic or intimate partner violence. Engaging in family therapy without first assessing carefully for violence can lead not only to poor treatment, but also to a risk for increased abuse.
A systems approach presumes that all family members have roughly equal contributions to the process and have equity in terms of power and control. This belief is not substantiated in the research on family violence. Hence, family therapy only should be used when one family member is not being terrorized by another. Resistance from a domineering family member can be addressed and restructured by first allying with this family member and then gradually and gently questioning this person (and the whole family) about the appropriateness of the domineering behavior (Szapocznik et al. 1988). (See also appendix C, Guidelines for Assessing Violence.)
It is the treatment provider’s responsibility to provide a safe, supportive environment for all participants in family therapy. Children benefit by attending support groups specifically for them; it is important to create a safe environment in which they can discuss family violence, abuse, and neglect. Usually, a way can be found to include even the family member who has turned to violence as a way of dealing with problems. That person is a vital part of the family and will be pivotal in understanding the nature of the family violence. For example, Johnson (1995) distinguishes between common couple violence and patriarchal terrorism. The former is characterized by occasional violent outbursts by either spouse and is not likely to escalate. It is usually an intermittent response to conflict, and in therapy can be examined and channeled into more positive expression. Patriarchal terrorism, however, is systematic male violence with the goal of control. It may not be possible or advisable to include a chronically violent partner in the family therapy process.
Child abuse or neglect is another serious consideration. Children in violent homes have more physical, mental, and emotional health problems than do children in nonviolent homes. Children of people with alcohol abuse disorders suffer more injuries and poisonings than do children in the general population. Research has shown that when families exhibit both of these behaviors—substance abuse and child maltreatment—the problems must be treated simultaneously to ensure a child’s safety. It should be noted that the withdrawal experienced by parents who cease using alcohol or drugs presents specific risks. The effects of withdrawal often cause a parent to experience intense emotions, which may increase the likelihood of child maltreatment. During this time, it is especially important that family support resources be made available to the family (Bavolek 1995), and that children know how to find safe adults to help. Any time a counselor suspects child abuse or neglect, laws require immediate reporting to local authorities. For further information, see TIP 36, Substance Abuse Treatment for Persons With Child Abuse and Neglect Issues (CSAT 2000b).
Domestic violence is a serious issue among people with substance use disorders, and it must be factored into therapeutic considerations. If, for example, a restraining order prohibits spouses from seeing each other, the treatment provider must work within this limitation, using therapeutic configurations that make sure that a client who is abusive is not in a session with the person he or she has been barred from seeing. Often when there is concomitant family violence, the offender is mandated to complete a Batterer’s Intervention Program before participating in any couple’s work. At the same time, the victim/spouse is engaged in safety planning and sometimes treatment for his or her own issues.
Only the most extreme anger contraindicates family therapy. Kaufman and Pattison (1981) developed the concept of the need for a period of abstinence before sufficient trust can be built to counteract the anger. Including all family members in treatment and providing them a forum for releasing their anger may help to work toward that threshold. Redefining the problem as residing within the family as a whole can help transform the anger into motivation for change. In turn, this motivation can be used to restructure the family’s interactions so that the substance abuse is no longer supported. The therapist’s ability to reframe proposed obstructions by family members is often the key to creating a positive therapeutic direction.
It is up to counselors and therapists to assess the potential for anger and violence and to construct therapy so it can be conducted without endangering any family members. Because of the life‐and‐death nature of this responsibility, the consensus panel includes guidelines for the screening and treatment of people caught up in the cycle of family violence. These recommendations, adapted from TIP 25, Substance Abuse Treatment and Domestic Violence (CSAT 1997b), are presented in appendix C. However, these guidelines are not a substitute for training; counselors and therapists should have training and supervision in handling family violence cases.
If, during the screening interview, it becomes clear that a batterer is endangering a client or a child, the treatment provider should respond to this situation before any other issue and, if necessary, suspend the rest of the screening interview until the safety of the client can be ensured. The provider should refer the client or child to a domestic violence program and possibly to a shelter and legal services, and should take necessary steps to ensure the safety of affected children. Any outcry of anticipated danger needs to be regarded with the utmost seriousness and immediate precautions taken.
Goals of This TIP
The integration of family therapy into substance abuse treatment is an important development in the treatment of addictions. Historically, barriers have separated the fields, among them differences in credentialing, treatment models, and cost for higher‐trained family therapists.
This TIP is intended to provide an opportunity for providers from both disciplines to learn from one another. It provides language that will help both fields talk about family therapy and addiction and facilitate a new and more collaborative way of thinking about substance abuse treatment.
In many States and jurisdictions, credentialing requirements are raising standards for substance abuse counselors and family therapists. These changes, which will require further education, provide opportunities for practitioners to expand their horizons as they upgrade their professional skills. This process can further cross‐fertilize the fields by making the practitioners of both fields more familiar with each other’s work.
Coverage for family therapy
The consensus panel hopes that substance abuse treatment and family therapy practitioners will be able to use this TIP to help educate insurers and behavioral managed care organizations about the importance of covering family therapy services for clients with substance use disorders.
Goals for Specific Groups
Substance abuse treatment counselors
This TIP will help substance abuse treatment counselors
Understand the impact of substance abuse on families taken as a whole
Recognize that family members need treatment in the context of the family as a whole
Appreciate the value of family therapy in treatment and integrate their interventions with the greater good of the family
Family therapists and other clinicians
This TIP will help family therapists become more aware of the presence and significance of chemical dependency and work with the substance abuse treatment community so family environments no longer contribute to or maintain substance abuse. It also is hoped that family therapists will come to appreciate models of substance abuse treatment and the context in which they are delivered.
Clinical supervisors in substance abuse treatment programs and in family treatment programs can use this information to become aware of and knowledgeable about the potential connections between substance abuse treatment and family therapy. These supervisors will then be better equipped to incorporate appropriate family approaches into their programs and evaluate the performance of personnel and programs in both disciplines.
Treatment program administrators
Realizing how beneficial family therapy can be as an adjunct to or integrated part of substance abuse treatment, program administrators can use the TIP to train and motivate substance abuse treatment clinicians to include family members in treatment. Likewise, program administrators in family treatment programs can use the TIP to motivate and train family therapists to include the exploration of substance use disorders in family treatment.
Since it is difficult to find counselors who are expert in both fields, it is hoped that substance abuse treatment administrators will develop collaborative relationships with family therapy programs and manage necessary logistical issues. For example, finding adequate space is often an issue. Working hours, too, may have to be shifted, because staff will need to work some evenings to meet with family members.
The consensus panel hopes that family therapists will begin to raise the issue of substance use as a critical issue that can negatively impact families and that substance abuse treatment counselors will use information in this TIP to inform families about what they can expect from treatment. The growing consumer health movement can be part of the education that emboldens families to ask for adequate treatment. The IP and family members should be encouraged to identify
Why is treatment being pursued now?
What are the costs and benefits of engaging in therapy now?
How is “change” defined in the structure of “progress” in therapy?
What are the key components of treatment for the family?